The tradition of throwing rice, confetti or birdseeds at the wedding couple is an ancient pagan rite that dates back as far as ancient Egypt and Rome, it signified a fruitful union. They believed that the fertility of the seeds would be transferred to the couple on whom they fell.
Traditions generally change over time, and this one is no different. In recent times we have seen the tradition being modified for several reasons, some being safety, some being environmental, and some just because its plain old fashioned.
Confetti is usually an environmental issue, as confetti is now made with paper and not the original grains and nuts. Also, it is a very difficult job to clean up the remnants of confetti both from the venue and especially from the hair of the bride and in some cases the groom.
Rice and birdseeds pose a safety concern as there have been cases where guests have slipped and fallen. Some venues have since banned rice and bird seeds out of fear of litigation.
Wishing the happy couple good luck these days doesn't have to be messy or detrimental. There are several alternatives available. Today's many options include:
· Bubbles from souvenir bottles, this concept is fairly new but widely used because of its many advantages. Blowing bubbles creates great wedding pictures, there are environmentally friendly and safe. They make excellent souvenirs, as some bottles are made in several shapes including wine glasses and wedding cakes with the choice of customizations.
· Butterflies are also great to release as it is a special meaning for all to watch as your butterflies are released, and your vows are taken up to the heavens to be granted, figuratively speaking of course.
· Rose petals make the scenery very beautiful and roses are associated with love so this signifies the couples love.
· Releasing balloons may be an option; however you will have to find out whether or not your city has an ordinance against releasing balloons.
· Releasing doves on the way out of the church, this is a sign of good luck.
· Waving sparklers is ideal for a late wedding; this looks beautiful when it's dark.
· Ringing bells as you leave the church signifies the solidification the marriage; guests use them to announce the exiting married couple. Bells also make great souvenirs. Note however, that bells should be rung and not thrown!
This list is by no means exhaustive, being creative and attaching a meaning to your options is vital for the lasting memory you desire.
Even though these options are popular today some of them are still based on tradition. The releasing of doves for example, is still based on tradition as it has been an age old theory that the release of doves brings good luck.
However, most of the newer options are based on fads or in an effort to protect the environment. Rose petals for example are an environmentally safe alternative to confetti.
